About Me

About Me:

I am on a journey to inspire and passionately create transformation in the world that ripples through people's hearts everywhere. I am father of two young men, international speaker and a trained life coach. I work with men and women to support them in aligning their life choices with the desires and values that matter most to them, empowering them to live a truly authentic life straight from the heart to freedom and connection.

My Story

As a computer nerd who spent most of his time behind the screen working from home, I was isolated from the world and people which meant I spent most if not all of my time in my head experiencing logic, fear, anxiety and sadness. The result of this was that I missed out on a lot of social cues, struggled to be empathic and found emotional connections with myself and others very awkward. This was especially the case when it came to women.

After a significant emotional event, the universe dealt me a blow that I now see as a gift. As they say, the universe has shaken you to awaken you; it sure did that and is still is sending me aftershocks!

One of the biggest challenges I faced was to understand what it means to be a healthy masculine man; since the death of my father I felt I had no one to learn from. Through a revived love of reading I discovered that there are actually thousands of years of teaching though these have been left in the shadows of late while a wave of feminism and equality has swept in to take its quantum leap. These developments have indeed been liberating for people living in Western society but they have also left a lot of women feeling incredible pressure to spin every plate while many men feel marginalised and their heroic desire deemed impotent!

The media has further confused the issue by its often misrepresented and sensationalised portrayal of both genders.
After years of learning, experimenting, testing and developing my own thesis, I am a man of purpose and am dedicated to helping myself and other men, women, boys and girls improve their connection with their innate masculine and feminine essence.

The world is crying out for a heathier balance of masculine and feminine energy and there is a strong need to feel reconnected to this.

I love teaching men to understand and develop a healthy sense of masculinity as well as embracing all that is femininity in order to feel grounded and centered.

Highlighting the need for more men to talk and be understood is the prevalence of mental health issues and the three times higher suicide rate in men. This has been linked with a societal struggle to connect with oneself and in turn to connect with the external world.

You can join me on this journey of discovery and inner peace; it is a path for all men to undertake so they can connect to their core and live their truth rather than risk the neglect of their true essence as a man, a situation which can result in a life full of fear, shame, resentment and feeling lost.

As I learn more about men, I am passionate to help women understand men and boys so they can communicate and build happier relationships at home, socially and at work.