Do you get anxious and freeze even just at the thought of wanting to talk to a beautiful women you desire?

Do you get anxious and freeze even just at the thought of wanting to talk to a beautiful women you desire?

Majority of men find initiating any sort of connection with a women they find attractive a big stumbling block to getting a date.

And they don’t realise they can do something about it.

You would think the idea of simply talking to a person would be easy, but how come it is not the case when it comes to someone we are attracted to?

Is it even possible?

This is one question that keeps humans stuck, out of action and unhappy with their current situation.

Then comes the “yeah but” followed by vomiting of excuses.

Meet Faisal Khokhar

Faisal Khokhar Speaker & Coach
Faisal Khokhar, London

I believe our relationships can be a place of joy, happiness and love. Healthy relationships are about building each other up, not putting each other down.

And if a relationship has come to an end, we can learn to part like adults in an amicable way.

I used to be an I.T. geek. The thought of approaching, talking and connecting with a girl filled me up with anxiety, stress and would result in freezing.

And when I would be communicating with a girl, conversations would go stail and the silence would get awkward.

My feelings of unworthiness and unlikeable would surge throughout my body.

I could build computer machines, write software in multiple languages, fix all your technical issues with your hardware and software, website and graphics. But when it came to connecting with people, especially girls, I remained in version 1.0 for most of my life, in fact I was in beta version.

Don’t get me wrong, I could talk and have fun, but I felt there was no true substance to it and the women felt this void too. They stuck around maybe because of their insecurities or some of them wanted to change me. You know the feeling!

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